Drinking and Driving

There are times when I have to drive to work, and it almost always pans out to be the days when there is a major traffic incident. So, as it would have to be, I had to drive on a Friday. It was a miserable, miserable traffic day going in, and I was deeply dreading going home. I managed to arrange for a few familiar faces to be my sluggers hoping that our past laughs and conversations would make the ride go by faster.

I wasn't disappointed by the conversation or the laughs. We had quite a few college-level laughs that involved body-function humor and a few yells out the car window at unsuspecting HOV violators. The demographics in the car was 2 guys and 2 girls, and the conversations were bouncing around between woman-bashing to man-bashing and back again. It was a 2 hour exchange of snips and jokes and inappropriate comments, and I was glad to have asked them along.

And then things got weird.

One of the guys mentioned "Hey, we should go grab a couple of happy hour drinks after we get back." And, being caught up in the celebratory mood, we all said "ooooh, yeah~! What a great idea!"

So we continued on down the road laughing and joking, and I started to notice that one of the men in the backseat was a little too interested in me and my stories. He kept wanting me to expand on some of the more "inappropriate" comments, and the girl riding with me was starting to give me those "whoa, freaky" kind of looks.

We finally made it back to the lot, and as everyone dispersed from the car, the discussion of where to go came up. After the guys made the decision to go somewhere they like, the other girl BAILS on me and says she can't go. So, there I am, stuck having at least 1 "polite" drink with the boys, both of whom are married.

And then things got weirder.

We walked into this bar that I've never even noticed existed, and it was dark, and smelly and the total tooth count in the bar was probably 36 (my 32 plus the 4 the bartender had). There were about 6 people in the bar other than us, and all of them were the kind of men who looked like they either just got out of prison or were on their last drinking binge before committing a triple homicide.

We sat at the bar instead of the "tables," which looked an awful lot like they were stolen from various places, and we ordered our drinks. I was trying to find something that didn't make me look too foofy in front of all the serial killers, since I didn't want to show weakness. I opted for the shot of whiskey and a coke. I still had to drive home and figured one shot of whiskey wouldn't be too much. The boys ordered their beers, and we all began to chit chat. I carried the body language of a woman about to be gang-raped, but I kept the conversation flowing. The guy who was showing too much interest started asking questions about some of my more adventurous experiences with men. It was at that point that the enormous "oh shit" flag was raised.

So I kicked back the whiskey shot and started doing the not so subtle time check. Overly Interested Guy starts inviting me to concerts and making comments about sexy shoes and lingerie. His friend, feeling the level of discomfort radiating off of me, starts talking about his wife and then says he has to get home. I pull out some cash to pay for my drink, and the guys decide I can't pay for it. That's nice except in my mind I am thinking that will obligate me to reciprocate at another happy hour in the future. Not something I planned on doing ever again. Mr. Inappropriate says "you're gonna stay with me and have another round right?"

Er, no.

I said "you know, I've got to get home and spend some time with my daughter." That wasn't enough for him. He started talking about how she could wait a little while longer and one more drink wouldn't hurt anything. I tried to reason with him using the dangers of drinking and driving, and that didn't work either.

So, out of desperation, I used the fail-safe exit strategy. I leaned in and lowered my voice "I have to get home to see if my test results are back. I just had a herpes outbreak that seemed a little off, and I wanted to make sure I hadn't also contracted syphilis." He laughed. I gave him the straightest "I'm not kidding dumbass" look, took a sip of his beer that he'd just ordered, and sauntered to the door. He was not sure if I was joking or not, but one thing's for sure, he was distracted enough that I was able to escape relatively unaffected.

I will never drive and agree to drinks again.

He also has not asked for a ride from me or offered me a ride since. :)